Why the hard cry?

Ever since a little before or during the hard times in my relationship with Raunn, Evan has created this cry. It's horrible. He starts off with a wail, then I think to myself-there are no tears. Too soon, there are a few tears that roll down the cheek. It doesn't end there. He continues with an even harder wail, more tears and now adds the drool. DROOL....and if he has a runny nose, boogers! This cry starts and doesn't end until he is done. His feelings are so hurt every time that he can't be calmed. I don't understand it. This can happen four times a day. OMG.