Key to bedtime is NO NAP! OMG...I think it's time to aleviate the nap time. Today he woke up around nine and then no nap all day. At bed time, he's brushing his teeth well without missing too many spots. He's willing to sleep in his own bed. We read some books then I turn off the light. Have some music playing and in less than ten minutes he's knocked out!!! Pat on the back. Way to go!